A Relationship Is Never Just About You !!

A relationship is a bond you have with another person. Its the best way to have fun , share ideas and moreover it allows you to learn a lot about yourself. Any relationship whether its with your family , your lover or your friends needs lot of work to maintain or build upon. No two people are alike, No two people share same interests so its quite natural to have difference of opinion . Understanding each other is the best way to have a healthy relationship.

I have always been lucky in this regard. I have lovely parents, a cute little naughty sister, and a bunch of best friends who care for me the most.

A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift,
A friends is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.

"When you ask God for a gift,
Be thankful if he sends,
Not diamonds, pearls or riches,
but the love of real true friends."
~Helen Steiner Rice

Every relationship is unique, and you may have your own way of knowing that a relationship is right for you. Even when a relationship is going well, it is important that you still put effort into it and don't take the relationship for granted.

Every relationship has its expectations. Have you ever wondered how it feels when the people you value the most start misunderstanding you. What if you don't come upto the expectations of your loved ones. What if you realize that your loved ones are being indifferent to you.What if expectations of people you like the most differ and you don't want to loose either of them ...

If you are in a situation where you are confused and surrounded by a lot of "what if's" its time to change yourself. Learning to trust someone and being honest with someone may take time but its the best way to maintain a relationship that is on a verge to break.

The best options to do so are
* Be honest and trusting
* Speak out ! communicate with them
* Accept the differences
* Respect each others privacy
* Spend time together

And remember People need people and friends need friends and we all need love. Life depends not on vast riches or great acclaim, not on success or on worldly fame, but just in knowing that someone cares and holds us close in their thoughts and prayers. For only the knowledge that we're understood makes everyday living feel wonderfully good, And we rob ourselves of life's greatest need When we "lock up our hearts" and fail to heed the outstretched hand reaching to find a kindred spirit whose heart and mind are lonely and longing to somehow share . Our joys and sorrows and to make us aware that life's completeness and richness depends
On the things we share with our loved ones and friends !!